Sunday 15 July 2012

Ways To Heat Up Your Sexy Life

 Ways To Heat Up Your Sexy Life
Women haven't been waiting for a lab document to learn that sexual sensation centered on the vagina is different from sensation centered on the clitoris--or on the breasts, for that matter. But apparently this is breaking news to sex researchers, who have only recently confirmed these facts using high-tech brain scans. And if this information comes as a surprise to your partner , you'll be able to change your sex life in the most satisfying ways imaginable.

This new research comes from Rutgers University, where Barry R. Komisaruk, PhD, has been studying women's sexual response for three decades. They and his colleagues have now shown that not only does stimulation of the clitoris, vagina, cervix, and nipples activate distinct brain regions of the genital sensory zone of the cortex but also that titillating area affects other sexual brain sectors as well.

These findings are important to long-standing couples, who all basically fall in to sexual ruts, according to Nan Wise, a certified sex therapist & PhD candidate in Dr. Komisaruk's lab. The same elderly, same elderly sex routines don't work for females because female sexuality is nuanced & complex--more like a symphony than a cymbal clang. If your partner's approach to sex is one-note--exclusively focused on your vagina, for example--he's shortchanging your pleasure potential.

"Not every woman likes every type of touch, but there is likely a cumulative effect," says Wise. "For most females, layering or types of stimulation could lead to a better sexual experience than enjoying thing only." The result is that couples now have myriad reasons to try new positions, modes of touch, & means of sexual expression. Release your habits & inhibitions & let the fun start.

In order to defuse a quantity of the stress that can creep in to couple conversations about less-than-satisfying sex, think about drawing your partner a personalized pleasure map in lieu. Laura Berman, PhD, host of In the Bedroom with Dr. Laura Berman, provides her clients with a black-and-white outline of a figure's back and front on a sheet of paper. Circle the areas of the body where you'd like your partner to lavish attention. Also key: Assign each zone a number, which tells your partner what part of your body you require stimulated first, second, third, and so on.

A study from California University underscores the importance of going beyond the missionary position. Researchers surveyed  two,000 adults and asked them about their most recent sexual experience. They found that 81% of females who reported receiving oral sex reached orgasm, compared with 66% for those who stuck to intercourse. like Dr. Komisaruk and Wise at Rutgers, the California researchers concluded that the more varied the stimulation--oral sex being an excellent example--in a single sexual event, the more likely the females were to reach


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