Saturday 7 July 2012

SPICE YOUR LOVELIFE

TIPS TO SPICE YOUR LOVE LIFE

Has monotony set in in to your love life after years of marriage? Here are0 ways to spice up your love life. After being married a few years sometimes0, fifteen, and in some cases, a far shorter time frame couples often experience a kind of monotony. From every day being a brand spanking new adventure and having fun, boredom sets in. And most often, it manifests itself in the bedroom, with couples finding themselves in the sexual doldrums. They are either worn out of having sex with predictable frequency and even standard positions, or basically worn out after a hard day's work to even summon up the energy to do it.



 Well, you owe it to yourself and your marriage to spice things up a little. And you, as a couple, have to make a concerted effort to keep the relationship buzzing. All you need is to show some initiative and keep an open mind. So here are ten ways to spice up your love life.

1-  HAVE FUN , PLAY GAMES
  Along with the routines and pressures of every day life, things have probably become a tad serious. It's about time you loosened up and had some fun. And that includes the time when you're in and out of bed. So in the event you think sex has become an obligation or a chore to be performed like any other, then you require to make it more fascinating and fun. Find ways to laugh together and things to laugh about even when you're in bed. Sharing a naughty joke, tickling each other daft or even staging your personal WWF show to only make things livelier. And to add a twist to it, try playing strip poker  you won't mind losing at this game!

 2-ADOPT  INNOVATIVENESS
 If your partner has gotten used to quickies and doesn't spend much time on foreplay, don't fret. Take the initiative to prime yourself beforehand. Gorge on some aphrodisiacs like chocolate or caviar. In the event you find that reading erotica or watching some steamy movies or porn videos does it for you, go ahead and set the mood. All's fair in love and lust!

If you're bored with the turn your sex life has taken, it's probably about time you re-looked at things and tried something new. If you're always doing it with the lights off, why not try diffused lighting, or even better, candlelight or by the fire. The play of shadows lends an erotic feel to the experience. Mirrors are a great sexual mood enhancer . It can be a giant turn-on to watch your reflections and see as well as feel what your partner is doing to you. Expand your knowledge and brush up on your process by reading up extensively from sex guides. While you may think that practice makes ideal, a tiny additional schooling goes a long way! You can always benefit from learning something new.


3.) Variety is the spice of life
  If you're always having to content yourself with a quickie, set aside time so that you can have an extended and more fulfilling session of lovemaking. Or if sex always happens with much forethought and planning, then indulge in a quickie when your partner least expects it. And if you're always doing it in standard positions, take a leaf  or plenty of of them  out of the Kamasutra and check out alternative styles. You might need to be a tiny flexible for a quantity of them though! And if you're always doing it in the bedroom, move to other spots. On occasions when you have the house to yourselves, forget about food and put the dining table to better use!
Don't be afraid to experiment. If your partner would like to get a tiny kinky (as long as it doesn't make you uncomfortable) or give some sex toys a try, go with the flow. You might surprise yourself and find you like it. If things have become predictable and you seldom have sex unless it's the last thing at night, jog the process a bit. Try a tiny nooky in the work of the midday on a weekend, or wake up a tiny earlier and lure your partner in to the shower or tub for a leisurely bath. Make positive that the sole source of steam isn't the hot water!

4.) Communicate
 While lovemaking conjures up images of action, communication is vital. It is important to share together with your partner what turns you on & what makes you tick. Even after plenty of years together, couples still stay clueless about what gives the other final satisfaction & pleasure. They are often playing a guessing game. Also, what worked for you years ago might not still get you turned on today. So you need to tell your partner that & share with him something that you might like to try. When they is doing something you like, spur him on so that they knows he's heading in the right direction! & if you've seen or read about something & you'd like to give it a shot, don't hesitate to broach the subject.



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