Saturday 7 July 2012

QUEATIONS ALL MEN HATE

                                                     QUEATIONS ALL MEN HATE

Everything is coasting along smoothly and then they asks the QUESTION. It makes you feel as in case you have hit a brick wall. You also suddenly feel like some wild animal caught in the headlights of a large approaching van. Is there a way out?

Why do you think your last relationship didn't work out?
This is a trick query. If they says it was all his fault, it gives his new partner ammunition and if they says it was his elderly partners fault, it looks as if they thinks they is ideal and is being disagreeable. Earlier relationships are also private territory and unless the information is volunteered, it is best not to trespass there.
Feasible answer: I obviously had less insight when I selected her than when I selected you.


When do you think they can get new curtains for the lounge?
He means sometime in the future and they thinks, Oh heavens, he wishes them tomorrow and they can't afford them. Frankly, they has never even noticed the curtains and probably wouldn't be able to say what colour they were in the event you asked him somewhere they couldn't see them. Questions like these turn up the financial pressure plenty of men feel in relationships.
Feasible answer: Money Is a bit tight now  where do you think they can save a small over the next few months so they can afford this?


Do you even know what day it is today?
No you don't, which is why he is asking. The terror evoked by this query is huge. Forgetting birthdays or anniversaries or St Valentines Day, can give your partner ammunition for weeks to come. Fill these days in on your table calendar or programme them in to your cell phone in advance. It is worth the trouble. When you forget a woman's birthday, he hears the message loud and clear that you no longer love her or take care of her  whether it is true or not.
Feasible answer: Of work I do, but they could only do the delivery late this afternoon, so you'll must be a small patient.

Do you think my best mate is beautiful?
Another trick query. He wouldn't have asked unless he thought her mate was beautiful. In the event you say that you do, you could be in serious trouble. In the event you say no, he will think you may be lying, or that you are being disagreeable.
Feasible answer: I can see why men would find her beautiful, but there is a reason why I selected you and not her.

Where do you think our relationship is going?
Uh-oh. This is a heart-stopper. Does he need a wedding proposal, an evaluation of the last week together, or reassurance that you still find her beautiful? Probably all. This is where you need to tread carefully, in the event you are a bit commitment-phobic. Try and be honest as far as you can. There is no point in being manipulated in to something because you're polite.
Feasible answer: That's not something I can pick my own. And besides, I am not sure exactly what you mean by the query  are you able to clarify a small?

What are you thinking?
There is nothing that kills atmosphere like this query. People will share what they are thinking in the event that they require to or feel the necessity to. Being asked is tantamount to an invasion of personal space. All of us require our own private world of thoughts and feelings, no matter how close they are to each other.
Feasible answer: I was thinking about how fabulous a cup of coffee would be right now. Would you like some?

Do you enjoy being together with your friends over being with me?
This is a deadly. No enjoys spending all their time with person  everyone gets different things from different friends. They do require variety. In a definite sense the answer would be yes and in another no. You and your partner both require to accept that friends are an important part of your support structure and there is nothing wrong with enjoying their company.
Feasible answer: I do hope that the fact that you spend nights a week together with your friends doesn't mean that you no longer love me?

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